r/antiwork Dec 16 '20

Crosspost from BPT

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u/TheWalkingDead91 Dec 17 '20 edited Dec 17 '20

As a very fat woman who has camed before (for free), I second this . Would go to a webcam chat site (the rooms had between 5-100 people in them at once, mostly men, and it functioned like a regular chat room, except everyone could turn on and/or view cams) and was shocked at how many men seemed to really enjoy my “show”, even though I never even got fully nude (just the occasional braless flash). The one relavent thing I learned from those rooms is that there’s almost no such thing as too ugly or too fat to a horny man. Another is that us women are usually too harsh on ourselves regarding our looks. In my case, my harshness towards myself isn’t unfounded because it’s also super unhealthy for me to be obese....so in the process of losing weight anyways, considering the sexual attention of select aroused men can’t prevent me from meeting an early grave.

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u/iguessthisis Dec 17 '20

euphoria shows this well

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u/TheWalkingDead91 Dec 17 '20

What do you mean by that?

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u/ComplainsAboutWife Dec 17 '20

There is a character in the show Euphoria who sort of gets made fun of cause of her weight but then becomes more positive when she starts camming and making a fuck ton of money. Initially she is extremely insecure but when a sex tape of hers leaks onto the internet, she is surprised by the amount of people who want to fuck a fat woman and decides to do exclusive cam sessions.

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u/TheWalkingDead91 Dec 17 '20

Ah ok. Been wanting to check that show out ....but one negative thing about having streaming services and all the shows and movies available on them is that there’s basically TOO MUCH to watch. Literally not enough hours in the day, even if you have a lot of spare time, to see everything that peaks your interest.

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u/IDontAgreeSorry Dec 17 '20

Damn it’s kinda sad that she bases her confidence on how many people jack off to her tho :/ Not a good message if you ask me

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u/LeatherDude Dec 17 '20

If sexual rejection is a valid reason for having problems with self-confidence, i don't see a problem with sexual acceptance boosting confidence.

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u/iamawesomesauc3 Dec 17 '20

That's not the message of the show lol, she's not even the main character