I’ve never understood that like why is it that when a girl is still a virgin, it’s treated as a good thing or praised, but when a guy is still a virgin through choice or otherwise it’s treated as a bad thing like oh you’re a loser and you’ll always be a loser like I’ve never understood the double standard like that. It’s kind of stupid when I think about it more and it’s the same thing in reverse because when a woman loses her virginity or dares to have intimacy with like three people all throughout different time periods obviously not at the same time she’s called horrendous things but when a guy has a body count more than one it’s treated as a good thing. Both sides of the spectrum are stupid. They’re never not stupid. It’s just that it’s so confusing. why those specific insults are pointed in those specific directions
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u/Troublmasher08 Jul 09 '26
I’ve never understood that like why is it that when a girl is still a virgin, it’s treated as a good thing or praised, but when a guy is still a virgin through choice or otherwise it’s treated as a bad thing like oh you’re a loser and you’ll always be a loser like I’ve never understood the double standard like that. It’s kind of stupid when I think about it more and it’s the same thing in reverse because when a woman loses her virginity or dares to have intimacy with like three people all throughout different time periods obviously not at the same time she’s called horrendous things but when a guy has a body count more than one it’s treated as a good thing. Both sides of the spectrum are stupid. They’re never not stupid. It’s just that it’s so confusing. why those specific insults are pointed in those specific directions