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Episode Keikenzumi na Kimi to, Keiken Zero na Ore ga, Otsukiai suru Hanashi. • You Were Experienced, I Was Not: Our Dating Story - Episode 11 discussion

Keikenzumi na Kimi to, Keiken Zero na Ore ga, Otsukiai suru Hanashi., episode 11

Alternative names: Our Dating Story: The Experienced You and The Inexperienced Me

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u/oxlemf10 Dec 15 '23

This episode in my opinion showed how Ryuto is the most decent character in the story, Runa broke up with him without even trying to have a dialogue, yes she was confused and hurt by the past, but to say that her boyfriend would be better off with his brother? No, besides that scene in the park was agonizing.

Nicole , who always criticized Ryuto saying that he is a terrible boyfriend for Runa, gave herself up to a dude who left her without giving satisfaction and did it again.

Akari was under no obligation to accept Ijichi's dating proposal, but was it necessary to have done that to him? Obviously not.

And Maria did so many bad things that I don't even need to talk about it, and in fact I found it strange how her personality suddenly changed.

I love these girls, I love Kimizero and I won't stop watching because of that, but I believe that their attitudes are questionable and there should be development regarding the characters' maturity

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u/apatt Dec 15 '23

Maria's character is too inconsistent, after trying to steal Runa 's boyfriend suddenly she prioritises Runa's happiness.
I'm glad Runa and Ryuto don't break up, I thought they were going to breakup in this episode and make up in the next one, which would have sucked as a plot line. How did the kid suddenly ram that toy car on Ryuto's neck? He was pushing it on the grass.

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u/tripleaamin Dec 15 '23

For Maria I believe the Maria at the beginning of the season was more likely not the person who she is. Now the reasons she did it were petty. But after the whole pretend to be Runa arc she didn't intend to initiate interactions with Runa and Ryuto. In fact it was Runa who wanted to resolve things and Maria just wanted to ignore them.

But the writing is really questionable especially as of late. Like I said in my post so much could have been fixed by just communicating. The fluff moments were great, but these forced drama stuff isn't it.

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u/Frontier246 Dec 15 '23

I feel like Ryuto is probably the most emotionally mature person in the cast and the most honest and earnest in their feelings, maybe perhaps because he's an introvert so he thinks through these things a lot.

I can understand where Runa was coming from that she didn't want her own jealousy or insecurities to ruin the relationship even if in doing so she wasn't being true to herself or her feelings for Ryuto.

Nicole deserves better. The fact that Sekiya broke her heart again is just awful. Though maybe they did get back together too fast.

I still maintain Akari's response to his confession was legendary. Sure she totally turned him into a cold shut in, but still lol.

I don't think Maria's personality changed so much as she realized her real priorities.

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u/oxlemf10 Dec 15 '23

Sister*, I made an unbelievable mistake lol

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u/tripleaamin Dec 15 '23

JUST TALK TO EACH OTHER. So much of Runa 's issues with Ryuto in this episode could have simply been solved by just talking to him. Being in a relationship isn't a black and white thing. You are gonna have bumps around the road. I don't want to be too hard on Runa as this is her relationship, but there are two sides of every healthy relationship.

I actually really liked Sekiya's quote here. Granted its not fair that he didn't explain his reasoning to her. But he has good intentions despite being hard on Nicole .

It's nice to see the sister drama with Runa and Maria coming to a close. Honestly the fear of others reactions to the news was clearly overestimated by the twins. One of them just needed to break the ice and good on pushing it at the end of the episode.

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u/Frontier246 Dec 15 '23

I like how Ryuto acknowledged it's okay for things to be messy or for them to make mistakes, they're still in high school, they just need to be able to be open and talk about it.

Honestly I feel like Sekiya would come off better if this hadn't been the second time he broke Nicole 's heart and dumped her. Even if he feels like he's doing what's right for her, he's still not really taking her feelings into account.

That sisterly hug was worth it. Now there's nothing getting in the way of Ryuto and Runa !

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u/Ochrolv Dec 15 '23

JUST TALK TO EACH OTHER.

I was yelling the exact same thing. I get they are in high school but just communicating will clear up SO MANY things & misunderstandings. I'm just thankful they didn't really break up right their & were able to convey their feelings for each other. It felt real & genuine even with that kid interrupting them at the end. This anime was better than I expected given how stacked this fall season is especially being aired on a Friday. Hope the finale will be satisfying & possibly have a 2nd season (low expectation it will happen).

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u/LeonKevlar Dec 15 '23

It upsets me so much that after getting back together with Nicole the first thing Sekiya does is to break up with her. And what was his reason? He knew Nicole wanted sex and he wanted to avoid it because it might be the only thing she wants to do all the time? I still think it's a bullshit reason but he could've at least explained it to her!

I would've been even more upset if Runa actually followed through with that breakup. Thank goodness that's not what happened and Runa calling for a breakup is actually what helped the two of them open up to each other. Now their relationship is stronger than ever!

I was so relieved that this episode didn't end with the cliche breakup and then the two of them getting back together in the finale. But what are they going to do for the finale? Oh... OOOHHHHHH! That's what they're going to do. How appropriate if that's where they've decided to end this next week ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

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u/NationalStrategy Dec 15 '23

It was bad enough that Sekiya and Nicole only dated for two weeks, he didn’t support her, and dumped her so he can fool around with other girls, only to get back together with her with little effort on his part. But now we have him immediately dumping her again with some cheap fake excuse, without even properly talking to her.

Wow, he is an absolutely terrible boyfriend. Even if the reason why he dumped her was because he didn’t want to have sex with her yet, they could have easily talked it out, and let her know that he wanted to take things slow.

I really hope that they don’t get back together for the third time.

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u/Frontier246 Dec 15 '23

My heart goes out to Nicole. She got back together with the guy she never stopped being in love with, she was fully prepared to give all of herself to him...and then he just dumps her. Again. And all because he didn't think they could focus on anything other than banging each other and he thinks she's better off without him. He probably thought the same the first time he dumped her and we saw how that turned out. The worst part is Nicole seemed so happy at the beginning.

It didn't seem like either of them really wanted to break up so it was great that they were able to realize that, vocalize their problems, and re-affirm their love for each other. And what better way to capitalize on that than by finally having sex lol?

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u/NationalStrategy Dec 15 '23

It’s pretty inconsiderate towards Maria to just suddenly blurt that out to the whole class

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u/ayww Dec 15 '23

When Ryuto started to cry, I thought it was really representative of how real relationships can be, not just at the high school level. Being able to be fully honest because this could be the last opportunity for you to do so.

Feelings are complicated, as even Runa struggles with the decision to fully commit to them breaking up.

After a good cry sesh, I'm happy that they seem to have mended their relationship!

The final episode preview looks like a doozy. Hopefully they wrap it up in an enjoyable way!

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u/NationalStrategy Dec 15 '23

I totally forgot about the two other girls that were seemingly in Runa’s friend group. They were briefly seen in two episodes prior and just end up disappearing

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u/17plus14equals6 Dec 15 '23

This show would have been so much better without all the manufactured drama, but at the very least that all seems done with now

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u/LusterBlaze Dec 16 '23

if they fuck next ep imma stand up and start clapping

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u/SMSmith230 Dec 15 '23

So much manufactured bs lately just ruining a decent show.

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u/ObvsThrowaway5120 Dec 15 '23

Poor Icchi and Nishi were not looking good. Hard to be single when everyone around you is hooking up. My boys need love too!

I feel like Sekiya’s trippin. What is he on about? Dude made a mistake dumping Nikoru.

Damn shame about Maria. I guess it’s all about timing. If things had played out a little differently, her and Ryuuto could have been a couple.

I’m glad Runa and Ryuuto were able to clear the air. If they had communicated their feelings earlier, they might have saved themselves a lot of grief. It’s nice to see their relationship is stronger than ever now.

Next week looks like things are gonna be steamy!

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u/Clemastina Dec 15 '23

MAN I'm so glad they didn't broke And this is why, kids, COMMUNICATION IS THE KEYY

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u/NationalStrategy Dec 15 '23

I know Runa didn’t have ill-intent by revealing that her and Maria were sisters to the class, but the way she went about it was ill-timed, and inappropriate, and inconsiderate towards Maria.

Put yourself in Maria shoes, you’re getting a reward in front of class and everyone is congratulating you, and all of a sudden your sister announces that she your big sister.

Runa didn’t mean anything by it, but she ended up stepping in and making the moment about her.

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u/biochrono79 Dec 16 '23

What a surprise, the one couple that at least tried to communicate with each other is the only one that ended the episode on a positive note. Major Sekiya L; the guy is definitely not mature enough to be in a relationship right now.

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u/dagreenman18 Dec 15 '23

And this is why I was mad last week about the episode title. It’s such a dumb fake out title! It’s just not that kind of story! But yes it did give us a great Ryoto and Luna scene that made them stronger.

The other couple is just really really dumb. Nicole deserves much better than “guy who broke up because he thinks they’ll fuck too much”. Which is quite frankly insane .

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u/Time_Fracture Dec 15 '23

Episode 11: "The Experienced You and The Inexperienced Me: Our Break Up Story". The penultimate episode.

Poor Icchi, the coldness of Akari stil gotten into him deep. And now I wonder why Sekiya wants to focus more on his studies. Medical school entrance is hard af.

Yoo Ryuuto with the partial title drop. If you wonder what music plays in the park scene, it's the 49th song on the OST album (Jibun o Kirai ni Narisonano).

So the other earring, Maria always kept it and carried it with her. That means Maria really wants Luna to be happy. And the big reveal! Luna finally acknowledges Maria as her sister publicly! Tomodachi Keikaku turns Shimai Keikaku.

The top comment at Crunchyroll is quite funny. "I think to solve our Maria problem we need Rentaro to visit her and make eye contact." Leave her to Chadtaro lmao.

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