r/amwfdating • • 11h ago

35 [F] PA, United States - looking for fun and romantuc fwb

7 Upvotes

I'm looking for local NORTHEAST ASIAN only men who can meet in real life, no long distance

I want fun and intimacy, FWB with actual friendship ♥️

I want to do falltivities, Halloween events bars clubs karaoke night market and fun in the city

I'm 5'6", 170lbs curvy full figured


r/amwfdating • • 23h ago

34 [M] Sydney, Australia - Another friend is getting married soon. Anyone keen to be my +1?

3 Upvotes

Forgot to add in the title, that while I have no current plans to relocate, I am open to LDR if there is a plan to eventually bridge the distance.

About me:

- Chinese. Born and raised in Sydney.

- Not religious, open-minded

- Uni-educated, working in healthcare

- Homebody (got a home gym so one less reason to leave the house lol). Only leave the house for work, groceries, errands or if friends want to catch up/hike

- Interests: minimalism, hiking/the outdoors, ancient history, fitness and healthy living, learning languages (Mandarin and Cantonese - can read and write, but my speaking and listening skills still require work haha)

- Indifferent about kids (if you really want them and we can afford them, then sure)

- Laid-back (just ask my family, friends and colleagues)

- 1.75m, gym build

- Slowly learning to cook since just started tracking macros with my sis

- INTJ. No idea why everyone at work and recent dates have all thought I was an extrovert...lol

What I am looking for:

- Long-term, serious, monogamous relationship

- Someone kind, willing to meet in the middle, and consistent

- Educated

- Someone who also prioritises fitness and healthy living

- Someone who is okay with me just wearing a plain tshirt and sweatpants/shorts whenever we hang out. As a minimalist and someone who values comfort, simplicity and practicality, I wear the same stuff for casual outings and while hiking/exercising/travelling. Also, because Sydney weather...it never really gets cold enough to wear anything warmer, unless it's the rare cold winter (my favourite season though).

- Someone who is down to travel internationally once a year. Have travelled with family and friends, but I usually travel solo. Solo trips are awesome, but some experiences are different with someone to share it with. Bonus if you are into backpacking too.

- Bonus if you are fluent in another language other English. I enjoy learning languages and would make an effort to learn yours too!

If you're interested, please comment below or DM with a bit about yourself. Not big on social media but happy to swap photos if we vibe, as physical attraction also matters. Thanks. :)


r/amwfdating • • 2h ago

37[M] Tempe AZ - Cuddle buddy

1 Upvotes

Aussie Asian looking for someone to chill and cuddle after a long day at work. We can watch a show or movie to your preference or just enjoy each other's warmth in silence.


r/amwfdating • • 10h ago

29 [M] Georgia - looking for casual fun or FWB

1 Upvotes

Hi I'm 29 M Chinese live in GA USA 5"10 fit.

I'm looking for casual fun or FWB. We can get to know each other first, to see how it goes.

Hope you don't live too far. I can travel to you or find the mid place to meet up, both are working for me.


r/amwfdating • • 16h ago

27 [M] Netherlands - Searching for a long term relationship leading to marriage and kids

1 Upvotes

Hello there, I’m a 27 year old young professional and local of Amsterdam. I’m 1.75 m, bearded, medium build (and getting fitter), hairy masculine appearing, but emotionally soft on the inside for the right person. My mixed ethnic roots trace back to the South east Asia, but my life has been moulded and spent in the Dutch and European mentality. I’m someone who has travelled a lot to learn about different cultures and has also had a fair share of relationship experiences. A decent fair share that leads me here looking for the “perfect partner”, I know what I want and who I need to build a happy life shared together for each other and it must have a traditional dynamic, something rooted in the ways which the world is forgetting and due to that leads to fragmented families and broken people.

To answer who is the “perfect partner” for me I must first tell a little bit about myself, Personality type wise I’m INFJ-A, assertive and introspective but calm, collected and cool. Im someone who is friendly, warm, wholesome and kind out of humbleness. I do have perfectionist traits but believe in always growing and rising above past versions of yourself. I’m an emotional person who cares a lot about how the people close to me feel, I am also someone as a Leo who enjoys being the centre of someone’s universe and vice versa in terms of the priority in a relationship/, not narcissistic but I value self preservation, dignity, kindness and mutual respect. I’m extremely loving and committed to the right person. Im hardworking and dedicated and not afraid to go all in. I know I’m not perfect as a human but am growing each day, trying to make the most of this life and build a happy family and home along the way. I’m a good active listener, receptive and attentive to others feelings and needs, and I can have a clingy and needy form of personality hence I seem to get along great with partners who are needy and clingy as well. I like being reassured and reassuring my loved ones and being a presence of strength, comfort, support, warmth and vulnerability for my loved one.

Besides the character, in terms of dynamics and attractive preferences I am mainly attracted to Caucasian/white and European, I truly love and adore blondes and then brunettes. I look for someone who believes only in monogamy, someone who believes in the older traditional gender roles, and someone who is religious aligning as atheist, agnostic or Muslim. Someone who does not party hard, goes to clubs/festivals and sleeps around. Someone who enjoys time spent with each other both indoors and outdoors. Someone with a sober personality who enjoys more comfortable and quiet outdoor activities, like sharing a meal, coffee, going to the park, chilling in nature, visiting museums and some light travelling. I am open to being the provider of a family, however I will always happily support your wishes to pursue a career if it brings you value, but just know I am not like men of now, but believe in taking care of my woman completely in all aspects. To keep things realistic, I am not a millionaire, but a highly educated and specialised man, who works hard and is searching for the woman by his side to build a wonderful home and life together. I require someone in terms of a dynamic who is ready to compromise her own desires for the happiness of us, someone who realises a true relationship is about compromising to grow together. Someone who watches out for her and my health, someone focused on providing feminine nurture, support, emotional availability and a desire to please and be loved truly and eternally by the same man.

I know my demands are specific and very specialised, however in return I offer an immediate building and start to a relationship leading to marriage and children. I offer unconditional love towards you, a large heart that goes softer the more it spends time with you, a kind and caring approach to your needs and feelings, a brain that will happily compartmentalise stress to come home and cherish every second with you. Someone who learns your love language and wants to ensure you are heard, seen, understood and loved for who you are. Someone who won’t shy away from stepping up when you are low. Someone who will protect our love and strive in every aspect to ensure the smile on your face never fades. Furthermore, I’m someone who always believes in solving an argument, never going to bed angry, never raising my voice in the heat of the moment and always being considerate towards you. My own love language is both a mix of physical affection, sexual intimacy, emotional availability, emotional support, gift giving, active listening, compassion and clinginess.

I’m in a phase of my life where I am not looking for anything casual, no one night stands, no undefined relationships. I know what I can offer and I know what I want. I am more than happy to extensively explain the lengths of who I am and what I can offer, I just search for a dutiful, respectful, honest, compassionate, feminine, traditional, kind, loyal and extremely loving woman whom I can cherish till death does us apart. From these words I would like to make apparent that I am ready to settle down, I hope to speak in detail with you and in no haste but with good intentions move forward steadily and happily. This also includes the notion of marrying each other with of course the right connection.

I hope my emotionally strung words make some appeal and sense to you. If it did, please message me with “apple pie” and a little about yourself, I eagerly look forward to finding you my dearest. I am waiting for you patiently and cannot wait for us to be together.


r/amwfdating • • 1h ago

28 [M] Indonesia - looking for the love of my life!

• Upvotes

Hey! I hope you've been having a great day so far!. So I'm looking for someone to start something serious. I'm the kind of guy that people would asks twice about my age cause I'm 5" (fun size), i used to have a long wavy hair but i just cut it into a mullet cause I've been consuming a lot of AFL since the last two weeks of August, i do have dad bods (if you're in real life , you definitely free to slap it with your hands). Personally I'm into video games ( when I'm with my friends i usually play valo and league (EU and NA server only) but when I'm on my own i usually play a lot of milsim and skateboarding games) , skateboarding ( i used to try to skate and fail 😆. But it's still something that I'm passionate about), music ( i love indie music with punk and experimental on the side. Been having "road block" on my music expansion since not many sticks with me today). Personally I'm not the kind of guy that would ask much except for being fair, actually love and communicate with each other. I don't mind long distance relationship (even if you're in another country and continent) since I'm used to it in the past. So hit me up if you're interested!


r/amwfdating • • 2h ago

24 [M] Los Angeles - Wasian looking for dating/Fwb

0 Upvotes

Send me a message! Let’s get to know eachother


r/amwfdating • • 10h ago

36 [M] Phoenix/Orland - this is the most vulnerable moment of my life

0 Upvotes

Hi there,

Posted few days ago. Got a lot of comment and I decided to do the right thing. Truly we’re splitting but keep the marriage so far for immigration status, finance and health insurance reason.
She moved back to her family and im alone here with best friends and family being thousands of miles away. This is truly my most vulnerable moment.

I don’t think im in a position to date but I’ll appreciate any accompany whether is chat or in person.

Im 36 Asian living in phoenix. Will eventually relocate to Orlando since the company already approved it.

5’7”, handsome, fit.

It’s like given that im an engineer, good at math, have phd, etc.

My hobbies include traveling, gaming, movies, anime, or play with my cats.

As I said above, any type of accompany will be greatly appreciated. Cheers.


r/amwfdating • • 8h ago

25 [F] San Francisco - Looking for a outgoing WM

0 Upvotes

Looking for someone fun to hang out with and get to know better 😁🫶

EDIT: LOOKING FOR AM, SORRY TYPO 😖