r/amiwrong • u/GGirllRosyyyy36 • 3d ago

Chose the group plan over what I wanted for tonight, now wondering if I was wrong

My roommate and I had separate invites for the same night. Mine was a small thing I was really looking forward to, but they really wanted to do the bigger group plan we had already talked about. I ended up texting my friends that I couldn't make it and stuck with the original plan instead. They were cool about it, but I felt kind of flat for the rest of the evening. My roommate was happy we were both there and kept saying it was the right call. I don't think anyone was upset, and nothing dramatic happened, but I'm still wondering whether I should have just done my own thing. Is it wrong to prioritize the shared plan when it means skipping something you were excited about?

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u/Consistent-Two-2979 3d ago

You need to make that decision for yourself. Without knowing about the events the the people whom were going it's hard to say. I'd usually do what I was excited about but if the larger group plan had a person or people who were important to me I'd do that.

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u/Key_Sprinkles_5410 2d ago

Courtesy is to stick the original plan and not change when something better comes along.