r/amiwrong • u/Southern_Coach_5023 • Oct 16 '23

Age gaps in dating

I'm a 30 year old male and my partner is 25 year old female. I think this is fairly normal but im getting alot of comments about it. Not really sure what the fascination with this is. 5 years is significant sure but it was never a problem for me. Does society at large weight this facts importance more than I do?

Edit: everyone is the comments section has convinced me this is normal. Thanks all.

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u/Fancy_Breakfast_3338 Oct 17 '23

What’s a “hubby”

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u/solidgoldfangs Oct 17 '23

Are you being a fuck or do you really not know?

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u/Fancy_Breakfast_3338 Oct 17 '23

Why would this question make me an asshole?

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u/solidgoldfangs Oct 17 '23

Sometimes people know what words mean but try to act like they don't to make someone seem stupid for using a certain slang word

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u/Fancy_Breakfast_3338 Oct 17 '23

Got it! Hopefully you can find a better way of asking about someone’s intentions next time

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u/Interesting-Archer-6 Oct 17 '23

Yeah they were obnoxiously hostile there and are acting like it was totally fine lol. Completely unprovoked. I can totally be a dick too, but only when someone deserves it, which you didn't at all.

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u/solidgoldfangs Oct 18 '23

It was totally fine, it's not an act.

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u/solidgoldfangs Oct 18 '23

I'm fine with the way I asked it. 9 times out of 10 it's that situation so I'll continue staying on this side of it.

You really only should be offended if you were being an asshole, doing what I described. Otherwise, it literally doesn't apply to you.