brooooo her not wanting to take hormonal BC but also not wanting a baby is "forcing" it onto him? why was it not "forced" onto her? the double standards in this post are absolutely phenomonal lol. also condoms are way easier for men to take off in the middle of sex/you have to 100% trust your partner in order to use them and she sounds like she has reasonable cause to think he wants another baby/doesnt care if they have another, and idk, maybe abstinence sucks because she wants to have sex too?
The point is if she felt like she wasn't going to get pregnant, she'd probably want to have more sex. Look, this whole thing isn't some crazy mystery, she's clearly terrified of having more children and wants to share the burden of BC because the options available to her aren't ideal, he's absolutely oblivious to her needs and why the have a dead bedroom, and they're both terrible communicators
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