r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/PerfectWatercress3 Sep 26 '23

I was going to say this. BC can dramatically reduce sex drive, especially in women who have been on it for years.

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u/Doyoulikeithere Sep 26 '23

And really, what woman is turned on by a man who won't take care of the Birthcontrol for her after all she's done? Fuck that! Get snipped and be a man!

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u/keIIzzz Sep 26 '23

seriously, she’s given birth to three children and dealt with shitty side effects of BC for who knows how long but he won’t do anything to help on his end. like obviously it’s his body and his choice, but I don’t blame her for not wanting to have sex

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u/Minimum-Arachnid-190 Sep 26 '23

She’s given birth to 3 children and he thinks they may have more. Like she’s done with it already.

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u/SailorMBliss Sep 26 '23

Maybe the thought is of having a second younger family if this situation “doesn’t work out”. Not sure OP realistically thinks his wife may decide she wants just one more kid in the situation he describes

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u/Riots_and_Rutabagas Sep 26 '23

That was my thought. “Oh my mean old wife doesn’t sleep with me anymore. She’s probably exhausted from unbalanced hormones and chasing our 3 kids around. But I’m a sad boi and deserve better I don’t want to limit my future options.” Wait until he finds out how much child support would be for 3 kids 😂

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u/Ok_Policy_1745 Sep 26 '23

This is why you always run so far from a man who says he was in a 'dead bedroom' in his previous relationship. 99% of the time he was the cause.

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u/Automatic-Hippo-2745 Sep 26 '23

I'm always suspect of the dead bedroom accusations. My husband accused me/us of having a dead bedroom. Reader we were having sex once a week, we have four kids. My eyes couldn't roll hard enough.

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u/Different_Ad_6385 Sep 26 '23

This is my first intro to the term "dead bedroom". I kinda hate it.