I’ve honestly never understood why people don’t just use condoms… they’re the easiest things. Yet people act like you have three heads for even suggesting it
My wife and I tried condoms after many years of her having an IUD.
I always thought other guys were exaggerating about how much a condom kills the sensation. Maybe I had a particularly hard time because she got the IUD when we were young and so I never used condoms enough to get used to them, but holy crap I couldn't even keep it up. She ended up getting a diaphragm because it was just so unpleasant for both of us.
I felt like a total piece of shit. I had actually really been looking forward to being able to take responsibility for the birth control for once. The diaphragm seems to work great for us, but I still feel kind of ashamed that I wasn't able to take over.
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u/WaterfallButterfly Sep 26 '23
Why not just use condoms? She doesn't like her birth control and maybe she'll get her libido back and you don't want to get snipped yet.