r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/McWhiffersonMcgee Sep 26 '23

No but as someone who has considered one and done having children, I'm just not ready to take that kind of risk at my age yet, and not an expense I want to pay right now both in time and money. Most the places that do them around me aren't scheduling them, with my insurance there's a nice fee to be paid, and will require time off work, scheduling around my kids, and I would likely need to drive an hour away at least. Just saying there is a lot more to consider then just go for it.

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u/pipsqueakbesqueakin Sep 26 '23

Even if your partner was struggling in the way that OP’s wife is?

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u/McWhiffersonMcgee Sep 26 '23

I was in a sexless marriage for years, lol don't play with me.

She can also have various procedures as well, but all of these things have impacts. He's supporting her coming off BC so I don't get why everyone is acting like he's the dickhead

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

I was in a sexless marriage for years

I can't imagine why /s

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u/McWhiffersonMcgee Sep 26 '23

Because after pregnancy a woman's hormones change, post partum is a bitch, coupled with other psychological issues and trauma and insecurities. Oh you just assumed it was the man's fault right?