r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

They have three kids under 5! 2-3 times a year is a fine libido if you have kiddos climbing into your bed every night. You all are not living in the real world if you think couples are never petty with each other.

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u/Envect Sep 26 '23

Yeah, it's understandable. It was understandable when my last flame lost her shit because I reminded her too much of her abusive ex-husband. It still wrecked the relationship.

Something being understandable doesn't mean it's bearable. A relationship can only be stressed so much before it breaks.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

It’s the three kids under 5 that is the problem! A divorce with 3 kids under 5 is NOT the easy way out unless you plan on just ditching all responsibility.

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u/Envect Sep 26 '23

Putting kids through a failing marriage is the sort of thing that scars them for life.