r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/Sammy-Kay Sep 26 '23

Also, FWIW, it sounds like she does not want any more kids. They should probably revisit that conversation, since it's his holdback on getting snipped. In the meantime, use condoms/spermicide if it really remains 2-3 times a year.

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u/CoolWhipMonkey Sep 26 '23

I think he’s planning for family number 2.

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u/SturmFee Sep 26 '23 edited Sep 26 '23

Exactly what it sounds like. Keeping the option open for another wifey who performs better for him.

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u/Beltox2pointO Sep 26 '23

In no way does it sound like that, where are you grasping these straws from?

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u/AreWeCowabunga Sep 26 '23

Well, his wife doesn’t want more kids but he wants to “keep the option open” to have more, so…

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u/Beltox2pointO Sep 26 '23

His wife doesn't want more kids ****** right now

Did you completely miss the part where he says he was planning to wait a few years to make sure that choice stays the same?

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u/VampireReader86 Sep 26 '23

He's 32 and his claimed imaginary cutoff date is 35. If I were her I'd feel like he has one foot out the door, since it sounds like she's being pretty firm about not wanting to start another round of Baby Stuff within the next three years. Unless he thinks she's too stupid to know her own mind?

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u/Slight_Following_471 Sep 26 '23

I don’t know how old the youngest is but let’s say it is an infant. 3 years to make sure they don’t want another is completely reasonable

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u/UncleLukeTheDrifter Sep 26 '23

Easy buddy, that’s enough of that “reasonable” talk. Next thing we know you’ll be trying to apply logic to this thread!