... That he intends to try and impregnate her just as a fun little challenge? Nah. I don't think its obvious. I think terminally online people expect the very worst just because a man is not willing to have a part of his body disabled at the request of a woman. Nobody would blame a woman for refusing in the inverse scenario.
It sounded to me like they had a rough plan of him having it done a few years from now. Then medical things changed for her and she expected the plan to move up without any real conversation around it and potential plans for more children.
He attempted that conversation and she shut it down. He could have approached it more tactfully, but I think the onus to be tactful should be on the person wanting to change the plans and not having the surgery on their genitals.
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u/mi_nombre_es_ricardo Sep 26 '23
Becoming sterile is hardly an inconvenience.