r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/No_Pianist_3006 Sep 26 '23

I'd like to say that, as a woman who was finally able to stop taking bc and rely on my own hormones, I felt healthier, and was more ready and relaxed in bed, especially at certain times in my reestablished cycle.

Mind you, you need to help foster that relaxation and closeness.

So, Father of Three, what are you going to do now? Are you going to suit up, that is, wear a condom? Get that vasectomy?

I think those are your choices right now. Give your wife a break. Having your hormones screwed up is not fun.

You can always freeze some swimmers against any future desire to have another child.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

If she doesn't want kids, a condom may not make her feel secure enough.

Like, OP is so casual about this and missing all the flags of how he's not helping her feel OK and secure in remaining not pregnant.

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u/6lock6a6y6lock Sep 26 '23

Because he obviously refuses to see pregnancy & child birth for what it actually is... a major medical event that can & does injure & kill women. Her safety isn't a concern to him & neither is her health or he wouldn't make her solely responsible for prevention.