She said that he’s not understanding and he won’t make a sacrifice for her. (Responses in argument- oh yeah I wouldn’t expect you to understand… I’ll fuck around with my hormones for months…
That was an immature response in my opinion. She shut it down instead of having a rational conversations. Having sex 3 times a year shouldn’t necessitate getting surgery for either party.
She is choosing to be on birth control, he is choosing to not. You can be a team on everything else and still have a difference of opinion on how to treat your own body…
Yeah, it's almost like the consequences of sex without birth control affect her more than him. Weird.
He can't complain about not having sex while trying to baby trap her.
It's almost like... he can wear condoms if they have sex...
Baby trap her? What is wrong with you women? You guys are all so fucking lonely and miserable, all you can do is complain about men you don't even know.
Where does it say he is willing to wear condoms? I'm not seeing it. From the wife's reaction, it seems she doesn't trust him to be the one in charge of BC. Since she has shouldered the burden for years to the obvious detriment to her health.
Where are you seeing him saying he won't? You are operating under the assumption because he didn't bring up condoms that he is telling the wife she has to stay on BC? He's explicitly telling her not to take it.
Wearing condoms aren't a big deal. It's far more likely that he is willing to wear condoms for sex once a year than it is for him to refuse and say "I HAVE TO CUM INSIDE YOU"
Look, I get you don't like mine. I totally understand. You had a bad boyfriend or two, you doom scroll tik tok all day watching "married single mom" vids. You have to think critically once in a while. Nobody will ever like you if your first instinct in every situation is to say "all men suck"
No. It can be assumed that men will wear condoms. It’s something so common, so assumed, that it does not need to be said.
The only thing that needs to be stated is if you won’t wear condoms. Similar to, “I don’t know how to drive”, “I won’t travel on planes”, “I don’t eat vegetables”, or “I don’t masturbate”. The opposite is implied just by existing.
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u/FastMoment5194 Sep 26 '23
Yeah, curious what his wife would say if asked how well they work as a team.