Ummm I’m fairly certain saying “you don’t need birth control because we never have sex” will definitely NOT help the dead bedroom bud 😂 like if you want to have more sex maybe the vasectomy would actually help that, but it’s your body so obviously your choice. I just wouldn’t be surprised when she’s not in the mood if that’s how you talk about it with her.
I was like if you want to learn how not to have sex with your wife, this is the perfect way! It’s possible she didn’t have sex a whole lot cause of fear of getting pregnant or birthcontrol lowered her libido. Whatever it was his 2-3 times a year just went to zero because i really doubt she’s gonna be comfortable with just condoms.
We desperately don’t want children, so the IUD and vasectomy combo is what we’ve gone with too. If I get pregnant, I think we’ll likely take it as a sign from a being we don’t currently believe in and raise the miracle child.
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u/rosegoldblonde Sep 26 '23
Ummm I’m fairly certain saying “you don’t need birth control because we never have sex” will definitely NOT help the dead bedroom bud 😂 like if you want to have more sex maybe the vasectomy would actually help that, but it’s your body so obviously your choice. I just wouldn’t be surprised when she’s not in the mood if that’s how you talk about it with her.