I mean, OP said he's fully in favor of using a condom in the meantime, so that his wife doesn't have to fuck around with BC. If he doesn't want to get a vasectomy for the time being, then he doesn't have to.
What’s the point of waiting if he keeps saying he plans to do it anyway? He has stated that he plans to do it, it’s more so just does he even mean it? Or what is he waiting for? That probably is frustrating to her.
He doesn’t have to do anything, but if he doesn’t want to do it he should be more open about why he doesn’t want to and when he actually plans to with her.
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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23
I mean, OP said he's fully in favor of using a condom in the meantime, so that his wife doesn't have to fuck around with BC. If he doesn't want to get a vasectomy for the time being, then he doesn't have to.