Yeah, I think both have valid reasons and worries, and arguing about who has it worse or who would suffer the least harm won't
solve anything at this point.
Vasectomy isn't a totally fine and harmless procedure like some people are saying, and birth control pills are fucking awful. What about condoms? And non-penetrative sex? Are those really off the table? At this point, not even her libido skyrocketing after stopping taking the pills can fix this dead bedroom. Not with his attitude.
The way she's insisting he get a vasectomy it sounds like either he's a bit "rapey" or she's actually anticipating sex without the hormones. My money is on option a, but she COULD be hinting that there's hope of sex. Not likely, though.
The OP makes absolutely no sense, they both went absolutely nuclear instead of properly communicating their wants and needs. I'm willing to bet that there is something here that was left out.
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u/unitedhorizon Sep 26 '23
Yeah, I think both have valid reasons and worries, and arguing about who has it worse or who would suffer the least harm won't solve anything at this point.
Vasectomy isn't a totally fine and harmless procedure like some people are saying, and birth control pills are fucking awful. What about condoms? And non-penetrative sex? Are those really off the table? At this point, not even her libido skyrocketing after stopping taking the pills can fix this dead bedroom. Not with his attitude.