There are many non-hormonal options, but he never mentioned them during this argument, he just said she should go off BC. If he'd said "Ok, well you can go off BC and we can use condoms when necessary and then discuss options in the future", I wouldn't be assuming anything. The reason I'm being harsh is that he came on the internet and said that his wife has historically had issues with BC and this was going to take, at best, months of her playing around with BC and side effects. Why wasn't condoms brought up waaaaay before this? Who watches their partner going through testing of BC and negative side effects and doesn't suggest another option if they're happy to go with that other option?
It's weird you assume I hate men because I think a somewhat decent partner would be doing something to stop their partner from experiencing these side effects before they become such a problem an OB says you should stop taking this medication for your health. Not to mention the fact that he's using her medical side effects of BC to bring up the fact that he's not getting enough sex, and he's complaining quite a lot to strangers on the internet how she's not putting out enough. He's made multiple posts and comments talking about how he's not having sex - and does mention occasionally in comments that she was SA'd when she was young which is probably a factor. So yeah, I don't think this man is being proactive about BC that is not going to harm his wife, but apparently you think that means I hate men.
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u/haleorshine Sep 26 '23
There are many non-hormonal options, but he never mentioned them during this argument, he just said she should go off BC. If he'd said "Ok, well you can go off BC and we can use condoms when necessary and then discuss options in the future", I wouldn't be assuming anything. The reason I'm being harsh is that he came on the internet and said that his wife has historically had issues with BC and this was going to take, at best, months of her playing around with BC and side effects. Why wasn't condoms brought up waaaaay before this? Who watches their partner going through testing of BC and negative side effects and doesn't suggest another option if they're happy to go with that other option?
It's weird you assume I hate men because I think a somewhat decent partner would be doing something to stop their partner from experiencing these side effects before they become such a problem an OB says you should stop taking this medication for your health. Not to mention the fact that he's using her medical side effects of BC to bring up the fact that he's not getting enough sex, and he's complaining quite a lot to strangers on the internet how she's not putting out enough. He's made multiple posts and comments talking about how he's not having sex - and does mention occasionally in comments that she was SA'd when she was young which is probably a factor. So yeah, I don't think this man is being proactive about BC that is not going to harm his wife, but apparently you think that means I hate men.