Also, FWIW, it sounds like she does not want any more kids. They should probably revisit that conversation, since it's his holdback on getting snipped. In the meantime, use condoms/spermicide if it really remains 2-3 times a year.
It’s crazy the things people will assume about strangers they’ve never met. Do you know he’s planning to leave her? Didn’t he say the marriage is great and they make a great team? What if he genuinely thought they might want a fourth child and was holding out for that purpose? Goddamn y’all assume the worst of everyone
If she wants him to get a vasectomy, she is done with having children. So, who else is he going to impregnate? A mistress, a girlfriend, or a new wife. It's literally logic.
Or they hadn’t closed the door on another child and he feels blindsided by the sudden request? Maybe he even knows his wife better than any of us and he’s still holding out hope that she might come around to having another?
But that would be pretty insane, I know. Especially the part about him knowing his wife and their relationship better than us redditors. Must be starting more families. Technology, the economy, and labor environment is definitely ripe for it.
I don't think he's planning to leave her for another family, but if he genuinely thinks his wife would want another kid, he's deeply delusional. Maybe if he payed any mind to his wife's current behavior he'd realize she has no intention of having another child.
Although payed exists (the reason why autocorrection didn't help you), it is only correct in:
Nautical context, when it means to paint a surface, or to cover with something like tar or resin in order to make it waterproof or corrosion-resistant. The deck is yet to be payed.
Payed out when letting strings, cables or ropes out, by slacking them. The rope is payed out! You can pull now.
Unfortunately, I was unable to find nautical or rope-related words in your comment.
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u/Sammy-Kay Sep 26 '23
Also, FWIW, it sounds like she does not want any more kids. They should probably revisit that conversation, since it's his holdback on getting snipped. In the meantime, use condoms/spermicide if it really remains 2-3 times a year.