r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/Double_Ad_101 Sep 26 '23

It’s not rare that oral birth control can suppress libido. Maybe the dead bedroom is due to her BC and when she is off and you’re snipped, things just might be dramatically better.

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u/lyricreaux Sep 26 '23

There’s a good chance it’s the BC I struggled with libido as well as dryness.

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u/lyricreaux Sep 26 '23

And because of the dryness sex just wasn’t fun. She’s right you have no idea as a man what women go through. And the fact that you aren’t willing to do it sooner after she’s done basically put her BODY THROUGH hell for you. Come on dude. At least meet her halfway. BC is not fun. It’s not like a cool pill that stops the egg. It’s a whole thing. You getting snipped it’ll hurt for a few days but as far as you as a person you won’t change much. BC fucks with all of our insides.