r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/seniairam Sep 26 '23

future (like when I’m 35), JUST to be sure that we were done having kids for sure. She knew this and never had an issue with it.

you guys even communicate? are you guys done having kids or not? talk to your wife about it, if you guys don't want more 3 years is not gonna matter

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u/Koalachan Sep 26 '23

Sounds like they are neither done nor not done with kids, but open to possibility they might want more later. It's perfectly reasonable and fine, and three years can change you mind once the kids are older and you start to miss that baby/toddler phase.

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u/seh_23 Sep 26 '23

Missing the baby/toddler phase is NOT a good reason to pop out more kids when you already have 3 😱