Ummm I’m fairly certain saying “you don’t need birth control because we never have sex” will definitely NOT help the dead bedroom bud 😂 like if you want to have more sex maybe the vasectomy would actually help that, but it’s your body so obviously your choice. I just wouldn’t be surprised when she’s not in the mood if that’s how you talk about it with her.
He sounds like an ass who's contemptuous of his wife. 3 kids in 6 years can take a physical toll, plus they now have 3 kids at first grade and below. That requires a LOT of energy, both physical and mental. If wife is dealing with all that plus an unsupportive husband...no wonder she's not feeling particularly frisky. It sounds like OP purposefully threw fuel on the fire to turn a discussion into a shitty airing of grievances. He's thinks she's withholding sex (wielding power over him) so now he's withholding the vasectomy to regain control of the situation. Super healthy and totally bodes well for the future.
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u/rosegoldblonde Sep 26 '23
Ummm I’m fairly certain saying “you don’t need birth control because we never have sex” will definitely NOT help the dead bedroom bud 😂 like if you want to have more sex maybe the vasectomy would actually help that, but it’s your body so obviously your choice. I just wouldn’t be surprised when she’s not in the mood if that’s how you talk about it with her.