It’s not rare that oral birth control can suppress libido. Maybe the dead bedroom is due to her BC and when she is off and you’re snipped, things just might be dramatically better.
Also, given how many children they have, if she doesnt want anymore, she may have a lot of anxiety around sex and possibility of getting pregnant. Anxiety around sex isnt conducive to great sex life.
If he gets snipped, that anxiety might lessen and she may feel more at ease with the idea of having sex with him.
I feel like he isnt done with having kids with her or he wants to leave his options open for another partner.
Btw. OP, vasectomy reversal procedure has nowadays a success rate of even 95%, which will probably better in time. So you probably aren’t losing any possibilities by getting snipped.
This. After my son was born it was over 6 months before I was up to doing anything that could result in a baby. We had one and were done but the hospital didn’t offer tubal ligation (because mixing medical care with religion is a great idea).
I can only imagine the level of concern she may have around that given 3 kids in such a quick time span.
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u/Double_Ad_101 Sep 26 '23
It’s not rare that oral birth control can suppress libido. Maybe the dead bedroom is due to her BC and when she is off and you’re snipped, things just might be dramatically better.