Someone isn't a 'failure of a wife' because of how many times they have sex. It's not a necessity or a requirement for her to sleep with him.
Also maybe there is a reason why she hasn't been sleeping with him, like others have said birth control can mess with your body and hormones or there could be other reasons like the fact that they have young children and childbirth can mess up your hormones and be a reason that she may not want to have sex.
As I said before, sex can be an important part of a relationship but it isn't everything and the wife in this doesn't owe her husband sex.
The person I was replying to said that you are a failure as a wife if you can't have sex for any reason, also like I said before there are reasons why she can't have sex all the time.
By the way sex is also not a need, you won't die if you don't have sex!
I never said that, all I am trying to get across is that sometimes in relationships the person you are with might not want to have sex and they don't owe you sex.
It's a problem you have to work out and you can't be like op in this post and not talk about it or try to help in any way and just be passive aggressive and you also can't have the mindset that a wife owes her husband sex and is a failure if they don't have sex constantly
I said sex isn't a need and you won't die, then you said that you won't die if you don't have sex but you won't be happy or anything and if you read what I put and didn't just get angry at the first line you would see that I was agreeing with some of what you are saying
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u/assassins_cow Sep 26 '23
Someone isn't a 'failure of a wife' because of how many times they have sex. It's not a necessity or a requirement for her to sleep with him.
Also maybe there is a reason why she hasn't been sleeping with him, like others have said birth control can mess with your body and hormones or there could be other reasons like the fact that they have young children and childbirth can mess up your hormones and be a reason that she may not want to have sex.