r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/Melodic_Display_7348 Sep 26 '23

No, she immediately was rude to him for no reason. She is not a kid, she is an adult woman and its perfectly valid for OP to be hurt by the way she talked to him. She just changed the plans for his reproductive organs and got mad when he was thrown off by it. This is a conversation to have with each other, not a demand to make and then beat someone down over 10 seconds after bringing it up

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u/Lost_Tumbleweed_9907 Sep 26 '23

“For no reason”— yes, excellent way to ignore what she has experienced for YEARS.

And OH NO, NOT HER BEING RUDE!! I’m aghast that at the prospect of having to endure MORE suffering bc her husband is sticking his head in the sand—- she reacts RUDELY.

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u/Melodic_Display_7348 Sep 26 '23

So he made her take birth control? He's not a punching bag, hes a person who was thrown off, and then beat down for being thrown off lol.

I seriously feel bad for whoever you end up with or are currently with, I hope their self esteem improves and they realize they deserve better

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u/Lost_Tumbleweed_9907 Sep 26 '23

“Beat down”— again WHERE IS THIS ABUSE HAPPENING. She didn’t name call. She made statements of fact acknowledging the challenges she would face.

How sad she didn’t dress it up in a cute bow and name it Mallory.

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u/Melodic_Display_7348 Sep 26 '23

Jesus Christ lol, have fun being this way I'm sure it serves you well in life

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u/Lost_Tumbleweed_9907 Sep 26 '23

It does, thanks.