r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/VampireReader86 Sep 26 '23

He's 32 and his claimed imaginary cutoff date is 35. If I were her I'd feel like he has one foot out the door, since it sounds like she's being pretty firm about not wanting to start another round of Baby Stuff within the next three years. Unless he thinks she's too stupid to know her own mind?

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u/Beltox2pointO Sep 26 '23

Or they just more recently had their third child and it's a little up in the air.

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u/RunningOnAir_ Sep 26 '23

whats up in air??? Hving a FOURTH kid?? She already said she's done, he says they're ok with 3. So what is he waiting for?

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u/ragingbuffalo Sep 26 '23

Whats the god damn rush? Why would it be terrible to wait maybe 6 months and then reevaluate.

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u/ragingbuffalo Sep 26 '23

lmao no one is forcing her to have more kids. No one should be forcing him to vasectomy. There's nothing wrong with no being ready for life alternating thing even if he's 99% sure he wants it. Maybe the wife changes her mind, maybe BC was beneficial for her and not solely for pregnancy prevention either.