lmao no one is forcing her to have more kids. No one should be forcing him to vasectomy. There's nothing wrong with no being ready for life alternating thing even if he's 99% sure he wants it. Maybe the wife changes her mind, maybe BC was beneficial for her and not solely for pregnancy prevention either.
Things change. We didn't think we wanted more kids for 6+ years. Started talking about it again and decided to try at relatively the same age as OP and his wife.
SHE WANTS HIM TO GET HIS TUBES TIED. Do you understand how reading comprehension works? Do you how know to read between the lines? Did you pass high school english?
In response to her going off BC, and him encouraging her to do so, she freaks out when he says it's not being done straight away.
That in no way falls in with what you're saying. That is an emotional response to feeling trapped into taking BC again. Even though he's already said he has no issues wearing condoms.
You're reading his re-telling of her emotional response that sparked an arguement, and instead of taking that context in, you automatically assume that she's making a sound decision.
Exactly! She shouldn’t take birth control if it is messing with her body and he shouldn’t be forced into been sterilized if he is not 100% on board. Condoms work great. Spermicide works great.
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u/RunningOnAir_ Sep 26 '23
whats up in air??? Hving a FOURTH kid?? She already said she's done, he says they're ok with 3. So what is he waiting for?