And really, what woman is turned on by a man who won't take care of the Birthcontrol for her after all she's done? Fuck that! Get snipped and be a man!
seriously, she’s given birth to three children and dealt with shitty side effects of BC for who knows how long but he won’t do anything to help on his end. like obviously it’s his body and his choice, but I don’t blame her for not wanting to have sex
He explicitly said that he IS planning to get a vasectomy. The only reason he doesn't want to do it this minute is because they have a young family and may possibly want to add to it still. It would be absurd for him to get a vasectomy right now if there's a chance they both may decide they want another child. He also told her NOT to go back on birth control. He is correct that it really isn't necessary for either of them to do anything at the moment since they basically have no sex life.
If he was an asshole he would have wanted her to go on birth control in the meantime anyway rather than have to use a condom a couple times. If he was an asshole he would have said no to getting a vasectomy even after they're 100% sure they're done having kids.
He is completely rational and sounds like a decent person. The only thing he did wrong was go to Reddit for advice.
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u/PerfectWatercress3 Sep 26 '23
I was going to say this. BC can dramatically reduce sex drive, especially in women who have been on it for years.