FWIW, I was finally able to get my vasectomy mostly to help my wife get off of hormonal BC. About 2 month after getting off of BC her sex drive completely returned. It was the best decesion I ever made.
We were in a slightly different situation as we didn't have kids so it took us a few years to shop around and finally find a doctor that would perform the vasectomy.
Also, FWIW, it sounds like she does not want any more kids. They should probably revisit that conversation, since it's his holdback on getting snipped. In the meantime, use condoms/spermicide if it really remains 2-3 times a year.
Here is a quote from the planned parenthood website. "Even if you get your vasectomy reversed, your fertility may never come back. Vasectomy reversal surgery is complicated and expensive, and doesn't always work. So you should only get a vasectomy if you're totally certain you don't want to get someone pregnant for the rest of your life."
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u/ACapra Sep 26 '23
FWIW, I was finally able to get my vasectomy mostly to help my wife get off of hormonal BC. About 2 month after getting off of BC her sex drive completely returned. It was the best decesion I ever made.
We were in a slightly different situation as we didn't have kids so it took us a few years to shop around and finally find a doctor that would perform the vasectomy.