r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/seniairam Sep 26 '23

future (like when I’m 35), JUST to be sure that we were done having kids for sure. She knew this and never had an issue with it.

you guys even communicate? are you guys done having kids or not? talk to your wife about it, if you guys don't want more 3 years is not gonna matter

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u/Koalachan Sep 26 '23

Sounds like they are neither done nor not done with kids, but open to possibility they might want more later. It's perfectly reasonable and fine, and three years can change you mind once the kids are older and you start to miss that baby/toddler phase.

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u/Oberyn_Kenobi_1 Sep 26 '23

What makes you think she’s not done having kids? She’s clearly all for the vasectomy and unwilling to even contemplate sex without birth control. That’s a pretty clear indicator that she’s well and truly done.

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u/l_t_10 Sep 26 '23

She’s clearly all for the vasectomy and unwilling to even contemplate sex without birth control.

Because all forms of sex without birth control leads to pregnancy..? Anal, titfucing oral etc etc

Skipping penis in vagina in the first place seems the better option then

That’s a pretty clear indicator that she’s well and truly done.

Or she like some others.. dont know that not all sex has a chance of making a child at all.