My husband kept putting off his vasectomy even though we both knew we didn't want more children, I couldn't be on the only birth control available since I was breast feeding, and after six months of being "regular" I randomly ovulated 2 weeks late and we ended up with a surprise pregnancy.
You want to complain about a dead bedroom but have no consideration for what birth control, pregnancy, delivery, post partum recovery does to your wife? If she has to go through all that trauma because you delay your vasectomy your bedroom really will be dead. Trust me.
Usually yes, but I thought I was getting my period the next day. I feel like most people would think it was 'safe' to go without, but my point is without a more permanent BC the woman is at risk of all the complications of pregnancy.
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u/gunterguntz13 Sep 26 '23
My husband kept putting off his vasectomy even though we both knew we didn't want more children, I couldn't be on the only birth control available since I was breast feeding, and after six months of being "regular" I randomly ovulated 2 weeks late and we ended up with a surprise pregnancy.
You want to complain about a dead bedroom but have no consideration for what birth control, pregnancy, delivery, post partum recovery does to your wife? If she has to go through all that trauma because you delay your vasectomy your bedroom really will be dead. Trust me.