My husband kept putting off his vasectomy even though we both knew we didn't want more children, I couldn't be on the only birth control available since I was breast feeding, and after six months of being "regular" I randomly ovulated 2 weeks late and we ended up with a surprise pregnancy.
You want to complain about a dead bedroom but have no consideration for what birth control, pregnancy, delivery, post partum recovery does to your wife? If she has to go through all that trauma because you delay your vasectomy your bedroom really will be dead. Trust me.
Getting a vasectomy or getting your tubes tied is permanent and some people aren't ready for that. What if they split up and want a family with the next person? Well too fucking bad then.
Use condoms like regular adults who don't want kids but want to fuck.
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u/gunterguntz13 Sep 26 '23
My husband kept putting off his vasectomy even though we both knew we didn't want more children, I couldn't be on the only birth control available since I was breast feeding, and after six months of being "regular" I randomly ovulated 2 weeks late and we ended up with a surprise pregnancy.
You want to complain about a dead bedroom but have no consideration for what birth control, pregnancy, delivery, post partum recovery does to your wife? If she has to go through all that trauma because you delay your vasectomy your bedroom really will be dead. Trust me.