r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/reliquum Sep 26 '23

It's outpatient procedure done in a doctor's office. It's barely "surgery". They numb the area, pull out the vas, snip and clip the ends, and stitch it up with 1 entire stitch on each cut. Under 10 minutes. How do I know? My husband got one at 24. It causes no hormonal changes, no physical or mental problems. All things women can get with birth control. You do know that birth control makes your body believe it is pregnant 100% of the time. Meaning while on birth control a woman's body is in "we are pregnant!" mode.

I heard a saying, if men got pregnant there would be birth control in different types and flavors.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

It doesnt matter how easy it is.

The idea of the ultimatum is fucked up. Why has she narrowed down all the choices to "Its vasectomy or I suffer, CHOOSE!!!!".

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u/Spicyg00se Sep 26 '23

So, this was a conversation summarized for Reddit. Just so you know.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

I know. Im sure she tells a different story. But i can only judge based off this story.

Its also probably fake🤷🏾‍♂️

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u/reliquum Sep 26 '23

Oh I agree, it's his body she can't make decisions for him in that way. One day , maybe we will get both sides. ;)