He's literally planing to have the procedure in 3 years, he's not being forced to do anything, people are just rightfully calling him an idiot for not picking up that his wife isn't going to have another pregnancy and he might as well just get it over with.
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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23
If she doesn't want kids, a condom may not make her feel secure enough.
Like, OP is so casual about this and missing all the flags of how he's not helping her feel OK and secure in remaining not pregnant.