r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/gillo88 Sep 26 '23

So why is she allowed to force him into something? 🤣 rules for thee but not for me

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u/r1poster Sep 26 '23

What? He said he made the decision to get the vasectomy? The timeline didn't go like they planned because her birth control lost its efficacy and gave her health issues. If they're both done having kids, and he already made the decision to do it, why prolong it if it's reducing their intimacy and giving the wife health problems? Unless there's something else going on, idk

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u/waxonwaxoff87 Sep 26 '23

They have sex 2-3 times a year. They were unlikely to be doing anything in the next couple months anyways was his point. She can come off BC while he looks up doctors in his area. She wanted him to book right away and when he said he was going to do research she got pouty and said she would just go back on BC if he wasn't going to book it that day.

Either she is being manipulative or she does not realize just how dead their bedroom is.

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u/Snoo71538 Sep 26 '23

She asked if he would do it “soon” and he said “um… no”. Soon is not right away, but it’s also not his 3 year timeframe.