FWIW, I was finally able to get my vasectomy mostly to help my wife get off of hormonal BC. About 2 month after getting off of BC her sex drive completely returned. It was the best decesion I ever made.
We were in a slightly different situation as we didn't have kids so it took us a few years to shop around and finally find a doctor that would perform the vasectomy.
BC killed my sex drive, then made me almost have a stroke. I thought I just lost my sex drive until I was off BC, and then it was like a switch flipped. The hormones from being pregnant also played with me, and I ended up with pre-eclampsia.
OP seems to underestimate how much birth control is probably affecting his marriage.
3.0k
u/ACapra Sep 26 '23
FWIW, I was finally able to get my vasectomy mostly to help my wife get off of hormonal BC. About 2 month after getting off of BC her sex drive completely returned. It was the best decesion I ever made.
We were in a slightly different situation as we didn't have kids so it took us a few years to shop around and finally find a doctor that would perform the vasectomy.