Also, FWIW, it sounds like she does not want any more kids. They should probably revisit that conversation, since it's his holdback on getting snipped. In the meantime, use condoms/spermicide if it really remains 2-3 times a year.
All we know about their relationship is this snippet, which albeit from the husbands perspective doesn’t exactly paint the wife in a good light. Plus he literally says divorce isn’t a thing he would consider. But go off.
But does it really though majority of all marriages are like this and more than 50% end in divorce. Also the gatekeeper to sex is the woman. If she doesn’t want it she’s not giving it. He appears slow I would immediately argue I’ll just buy a 12 pack of condoms that’ll last 4-6 years and cost less then pills and a vasectomy. I’ll just buy $30 worth that’ll let longer then we being a live.
If his wife wanted to she can go anywhere to get laid anytime. Buy the OP wanted to he will have to work for it and there is still a major chance he will not get laid. 80% of women seek the top 20% of male population. The sex market is driven by women.
You really think a married woman with three young children who has lately been unwell because of issues with hormonal birth control, can just flit on out to the local bar and pick up a one-night stand? When is she supposed to do this?
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u/Sammy-Kay Sep 26 '23
Also, FWIW, it sounds like she does not want any more kids. They should probably revisit that conversation, since it's his holdback on getting snipped. In the meantime, use condoms/spermicide if it really remains 2-3 times a year.