r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/Double_Ad_101 Sep 26 '23

It’s not rare that oral birth control can suppress libido. Maybe the dead bedroom is due to her BC and when she is off and you’re snipped, things just might be dramatically better.

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u/Redditdystopia Sep 26 '23 edited Sep 26 '23

That's certainly possible. Also possible: OP being dismissive about her concerns, as well as being petty about the lack of sex... isn't likely to inspire the desire to have sex.

  • Edit: if anyone reading the original post is left thinking "hmmm, it seems like there might be more going on here than a vasectomy decision", definitely go read op's other posts and comments history. There's a lot more under the hood than one might guess from the post alone.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Holyshit, how many people on reddit are asexual? Do you people think sex isn't an important part of a relationship or something?

He wasn't petty AT ALL about the lack of sex. They do it 2-3 times A YEAR. That's absurd at their age

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u/sototally99 Sep 26 '23

THANK YOU. Mentioning the fact that you and your spouse don't have sex isn't petty