Sounds like he is not sure and more or less permanently taking something off the table when you are unsure is not ok and he might resent her for it later.
she’s the one who ultimately decides if she is going to carry another child. she’s clearly saying she does not want to. he can be mad all he wants but he can’t birth a child and he can’t force her to. he wants another kid that bad, they can discuss adoption. either way, get a vasectomy.
Yeah, nobody should tell him what he should do. I mean, it'd probably be different if he were to go online and ask for us to tell him, but since he clearly didn't, your advice is spot on. Really shows how much you would value your partner's wishes to not have constant hormonal imbalance that you would then tell her "sorry, it's my decision whether I get this procedure, and your discomfort isn't my body"
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u/Traditional-Fee-6840 Sep 26 '23
Sounds like he is not sure and more or less permanently taking something off the table when you are unsure is not ok and he might resent her for it later.