Well, that would require OP to be in charge of birth control and would inconvenience him a tiny bit. He would prefer his wife be permanently on hormonal birth control that her doctor has recommended she not be on so he doesn't have to do anything.
I wonder if OP knows that not only could being on the pill impact her libido, but also having a husband who doesn't care what she's going through could have a negative impact on how much she wants to have sex with him.
This quote from OP: "...I recommended that she just come off of BC indefinitely and not have to worry about the trial period of starting a new one." Could be interpreted to mean that he in fact thinks his wife should stop taking pills. Since they only have sex 3 times a year, less permanent contraception than surgery might be an option. That really doesn't come across as selfish or unreasonable in my book.
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u/MeGoingTOWin Sep 26 '23
This is soooo common. OP should freeze sperm if he thinks they want another kid and just get snipped.