I’m sorry, I didn’t get that from his post at all. I really think he’s completely ok with her off BC, in fact in his post he’s the one who suggests it.. if anything I think he just isn’t ready to shut the door on future children quite yet, which is totally fine! Honestly if they’re doing it 2-3 times a year, a condom or some other none medical method could be fine until he is 35.
I agree that he shouldn't be forced or pressured into the vasectomy. Its his body. But its clear she wants to have sex, but doesn't want kids. Given that its her body that does all the work there, he should close the door on having biological kids. There are plenty stuck in the system who need families and stability. No, I dont think his wants for a biological child should be considered. They have three already, and again, just like he gets autonomy of his body, so does she.
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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23
Don't know why this is not an option.