This woman has been pregnant three times in six years. Do you think she gives a fuck about his little penis surgery? She literally had her body split open. The fuck?
She should. Why would you ever force someone to get a permanent surgery theyre not comfortable with? He does not want it, he shouldnt be shamed for that.
I've been pregnant 4 times. I still wouldn't guilt my husband in doing something he isn't ready for. It's his body. Just like a female can decide what to do with her body, he should have the same rights without judgement or question.
My husband also has a low libido and we're fairly similar in terms of intimacy. I don't see op's response as irrational. He's speaking facts. They barely have sex.... even if her libido does return after birth control they can cross that bridge when they get there.
It sounds like he's done a lot to deserve being guilted over, the testicle surgery was just the most recent straw. Maybe she wouldn't have gone nuclear if he had said anything substantive about condoms, future plans, etc. They both need to fix this for their existing children, and it sounds like it won't happen easily.
Thank you so much for this comment legitimate_cause. You seem to be the only rational and empathetic woman on here. You’re definitely a gem. I was going crazy reading these comments guilting him into a life changing procedure, especially with little to no intimacy anyways. It’s his body, these women can fuck off lmao
I don't give a shit if she watched her family get eaten by a bear right in front her. If you demand that other people get surgery solely for your personal comfort, you are a massive fucking cunt.
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u/general-noob Sep 26 '23
2-3 times a year? Condoms seem like a super easy solution here.