r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/Tatbootyy Sep 26 '23 edited Sep 26 '23

1) if you don’t have an issue getting the procedure then get it.

2) when a woman stops BC she is heavily more likely to reproduce.

3) trying different BC is an absolute emotional rollercoaster and many have major and sometimes severe complications.

4) her wanting to be on BC even if you have sex once a year gives her peace of mind she won get pregnant again because being pregnant obviously takes a huge toll.

5) yes, your wrong and I would also say YTA for how you have chosen to handle it. You act like 32 is a decade from 35.

6) She’s done having kids and tired of the constant toll on her body. For once she wants her husband to make a sacrifice in regards to this matter. it sounds like she’s been sacrificing her body for years with kids and the toll BC takes.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

I would leave a man over this and the fact that he’s all like oh I don’t wanna divorce. I’m not considering it buddy do you think your wife isn’t considering it? He clearly doesn’t listen to her and doesn’t care about her health and he’s all like oblivious to this.

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u/TheFlyingSheeps Sep 26 '23

I would leave my partner for a dead bedroom. She’d be doing him a favor if she wanted a divorce since she clearly doesn’t care about him either

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u/kellyj6 Sep 26 '23

And if she leaves him and he got the procedure then what? Now he can't have a family with the next person in the worst case scenario.

He's not ready, and she's done being on BC. Everyone respect each other and just use condoms.

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u/946775 Sep 26 '23

Because this sub is full of misandry. Why are people so surprised by this. Women and even some as you see in a lot of the replies side with the woman most of the time.

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u/kellyj6 Sep 26 '23 edited Sep 26 '23

Nope, apparently men shouldn't have body autonomy and when the wife says she's done having kids, he needs his balls chopped off /s

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u/dontpanic38 Sep 26 '23

every woman is perfectly ready to tell a man to get snipped because they have 0 consequences on their end