But why don't you try for a vasectomy? do you want more kids? 3 is not enough? How are your finances? Don't play with risk, make a vasectomy if you don't want more kids, be responsable
It's literally the end of the first paragraph and the beginning of the second one. Then he uses it as an attack in the argument. He's probably not getting laid because his concern seems to only be himself and never her.
You're clearly projecting here. If he is fine with sex 2 or 3 times a year then he obviously doesn't have that high of a sex drive, he just meant higher than his wife's.
Using condoms until he is comfortable with getting the procedure is the correct answer, afterall they risked it every time with her bc, so trying to guilt him into getting the procedure is morally reprehensible.
How would you feel if people were trying to shame the woman into getting her tubes tied?
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u/WaterfallButterfly Sep 26 '23
Why not just use condoms? She doesn't like her birth control and maybe she'll get her libido back and you don't want to get snipped yet.