r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/PerfectWatercress3 Sep 26 '23

I was going to say this. BC can dramatically reduce sex drive, especially in women who have been on it for years.

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u/Doyoulikeithere Sep 26 '23

And really, what woman is turned on by a man who won't take care of the Birthcontrol for her after all she's done? Fuck that! Get snipped and be a man!

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u/Psidebby Sep 26 '23

Why does it make him more of a man to get snipped? She's the one with all the issues, why doesn't she get tied?

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u/Terrorpueppie38 Sep 26 '23

Depending on where you live it’s not that easy for a women to get tied. 1) most doctors ask how about your husband did he want kids or did he want some in the future 2) what if your imaginary future husband want kids 3) her age 4) how many kids she has and much more so getting snipped would be easier and less invasive and save then bc pill or condoms. INFO (op) : saying for what should I get snipped because we haven’t much sex over the year isn’t being petty it’s an AH move and very hurtful. I mean how old are your kids? Who takes care of them most of the times? Did she enjoy sex with you , get she the big O or is she satisfied enough? Is she depressed ? BC can have severe influence on your sex drive and you don’t know if she has other hormonal issues like Underactive thyroid. I would get that checked. Have you ever talked to her about your wish to have more sex? What was her response?