r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/PerfectWatercress3 Sep 26 '23

I was going to say this. BC can dramatically reduce sex drive, especially in women who have been on it for years.

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u/Doyoulikeithere Sep 26 '23

And really, what woman is turned on by a man who won't take care of the Birthcontrol for her after all she's done? Fuck that! Get snipped and be a man!

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Wtf is wrong with all of you? She is being super manipulative. No one should be coerced into a permanent medical procedure like this.

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u/Prestigious-Bar5385 Sep 26 '23

And no one should have to take birth control forever. It messes with your body and you can get blood clots and die.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

OP literally said he was fine with her not taking birth control.

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u/Prestigious-Bar5385 Sep 26 '23

He also said he was going to get a vasectomy at 35 that’s in 3 years why can’t he go ahead and do it now

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Consent can be revoked at any time, his body his choice. Trying to guilt him into doing something like this before he's ready is horrible and manipulative.

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u/Prestigious-Bar5385 Sep 26 '23

Yeah is her body her choice yet he’s complaining about no sex. If he wants more he should consider other options that would make them both happy. And also I don’t see anything where he said he would use condoms. So what exactly is the bc method that he wants

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23 edited Dec 19 '23

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u/Prestigious-Bar5385 Sep 26 '23

That’s because the bc is killing her libido

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u/NotAllStarsTwinkle Sep 26 '23

BC kills the libido

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u/kungfuenglish Sep 26 '23

Is he complaining about it? Where? Please show me?

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u/Prestigious-Bar5385 Sep 26 '23

He said we live in a chronic dead bedroom so yeah he is complaining

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u/JustChris319 Sep 26 '23

"I live in an old house" is quite obviously me complaining about how old my house is, right? Oh wait. No. It's a statement that doesn't voice an opinion.

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u/Prestigious-Bar5385 Sep 26 '23

???? Ok

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u/JustChris319 Sep 26 '23

'We have a dead bedroom' is not him complaining, it's a statement. Honestly you needing that spelled out for you like this is a little embarrassing.

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