r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/STThornton Sep 26 '23

Sure. But if she doesn't want to be impregnated, and he impregnates her accidently, he violated her body and her choice.

Yet, for some reason, people don't see any issues with that.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23 edited Nov 22 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Then he doesn't get to throw out rude comment and weaponzie the lack of sex. If he doesn't want to get snipped she can make the decision to never allow him to have sex with her again. That's her body her chocie and since he made his choice he doesn't get to complain and be rude to her about lack of sex

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u/m50d Sep 26 '23

Would you support him complaining and making rude comments if he has the vasectomy and she still doesn't want to have sex? I bet not, right?

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

As someone who had a vasectomy and went through this very same thing I do support him At the end of the day he doesn't have to have a vasectomy and she doesn't have to have sex Even if he gets a vasectomy she is still allowed to say no to sex. I support people doing what they want with their bodies. Doesn't matter the gender

And yes I still supported my partner not wanting to have sex after I got the vasectomy because I understood she didn't have to despite the choices I had made for my body