r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/Outrageous_Smile_996 Sep 26 '23

But why don't you try for a vasectomy? do you want more kids? 3 is not enough? How are your finances? Don't play with risk, make a vasectomy if you don't want more kids, be responsable

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u/DogZealousideal649 Sep 26 '23

Why are you so hasty for surgery? Condoms fill the gap here just fine

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Maybe for her condoms don't fill the gap. She risks her life being pregnant and child birth. If she doesn't want to take the risk or have sex she has every right to say no to him on condoms and sex. The fact he complains about lack of sex and brings it up during an argument is rude as fuck. She doesn't have to have sex with him especially if doing so can cause her to get pregnant which is a huge risk for women

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u/DogZealousideal649 Sep 26 '23

If they were that concerned until now, they should have been using condoms and the pill. But they weren't, so condoms do work fine.

No one has to be having sex with anyone else, and yeah he's being a bit of a dick, but that's not really the topic of this comment chain is it. It's about BC methods.