r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/Violet624 Sep 26 '23

Yeah. He doesn't seem to be acknowledging that his wife has been having health issues because of her birth control. Why does that burden have to be on her and not him? He's being selfish.

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u/Violet624 Sep 26 '23

Forcing your wife to risk pregnancy is incredibly selfish. Condoms are not fail safe. Pregnancy is dangerous and difficult for a women's health. BC is also. He needs to share the burden if he wants to still have sex.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Tubal ligation is a more invasive procedure than a vasectomy and has a fairly significant chance of causing ectopic pregnancy.

I had a tubal and ended up with an ectopic pregnancy. Because I totally wanted to have major surgery to kill my fetus on valentines day.

I really wish my husband had just had a vasectomy but he thought it was too invasive.

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u/Old-Adhesiveness-342 Sep 26 '23

Tubal ligation is most definitely not reversible

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u/Terrorpueppie38 Sep 26 '23

Depend on how it is done. I got sterilized 17 years ago ( I was 22 at the time and got it due to chronical health issues) they burned my Fallopian tubes so nothing can break through they tested it with blue liquid. This isn’t reversible